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Saturday, April 11, 2015

Stop Arguing or Find Somewhere Else to Live

I don't want to hear how normal it is. I don't want to hear that it is just a phase. I don't want to hear "boys will be boys." What I want is peace, quiet and harmony. Our home is suppose to be a sanctuary where we come to escape the world, a place we look forward to being at the end of a stressful day. Not the wrestling ring for the main event! The boys are going at non-stop and it's fraying my nerves. I finally told them yesterday that if they couldn't live cohesively then they had to find somewhere else to live, I was serious and joking at the same time. As much as I love them and miss them terribly when they aren't here, I absolutely love my sanity more. Finding somewhere else to stay is someone going to grandma's and someone going to Uncle Shawn's, lol. I know they love each other, I just want them to stop irritating each other. I know it upsets me more than it should but I just want them to cherish their relationship, like I do with Shawn.